What’s up bro,
So the last two quarters I’ve had class with this girl. She’s really funny, super nice and always classy. The problem is I don’t have enough confidence to talk to her outside of class. I don’t know if she’s interested or if it’s just her personality. How can I find out if she’s interested and how do I approach her if so?
Help a brother out
Man up and talk to her. The most important thing is to make sure your intentions are clear. Don’t act like a friend who is secretly trying to get with her, be straight up. She will respect that and you can keep your self respect as well. Most girls’ friendliness comes off as flirting, they don’t want to be rude so they’re nice to almost all guys, not trying to hook up. You have to be honest, don’t put her in a position where she thinks you’re a friend but you want more. Or else you’ll find yourself in a place called the friend zone.
What’s up bro,
So there are two girls that are interested in me, how do I choose between the two?
Three’s a crowd
Go on a date with each separately, but be honest with them about it up front. If you don’t tell them about the other date and she finds out then you’re in trouble. Starting a relationship with a secret (which is just like a lie) is a bad ida.
Make sure both dates are more or less family friendly and pick the one you see yourself having the better, well-balanced relationship with. The key is telling both girls what your intentions are for your future with her. Or just figure out which one you like more before you go on a date.
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